5 steps for planning your success in 2021

In the last blog post, I shared how I reviewed my 2020. In this blog post, I’ll share how I plan for the year ahead.

Essentially there are five steps that I follow when doing this planning. Before I jump into those points, there are a few best practices I want to sure.

Be sure to allow yourself some time to think and reflect. You don’t want to rush this process or try to complete it while distracted. If you have regular planning or couples retreats, you might want to think about combining your yearly planning process.

Avoid setting goals that are fashionable and instead focus on what is meaningful to you.

Now let’s jump into the 5 steps for planning your successful 2021:

  1. Review your low points in the past year or your regrets
  2. Review your high points and most positive experiences including where you were, what you were doing and you who were with
  3. Identify “three-month sprints” within the year and target a few areas to focus on. New habits take at least 21 days or longer to form. Rather than tackling too many at once, try to pick one or two areas to focus on.
  4. Remember to include your regular planning and couples’ retreats into the year. Schedule these in advance on your calendar.
  5. Break down your three-month sprints into well-defined actions by the week and by the day and get granular with it.

Reviewing low points and regrets

This is an obvious place to start given most people will want to “right their wrongs” from the past year. The biggest example for me from 2020 was not spending enough time with my family. COVID-19 certainly played a part in this but it was something I intended to improve on even before the pandemic. This is a MUST IMPROVE for me in 2021.

Reviewing high points and positivity

Compared to the low points where we are trying to “right our wrongs” or improve on something we didn’t do, this is all about doing MORE to create high points and positive experiences. Think about the great experiences you had last year. Where you were and what you were doing. The people you shared those experiences with. This will form the basis for scheduling out your year to make sure they include time with these same people doing the types of things that brought you joy.

Three-month sprint focus

Planning 12 months in advance can feel like a monumental task. Instead of trying to plan out all 365 days or even all 12 months try breaking it up into “three-month sprints”. This allows you some leeway and also provides a way to help you focus on a few areas versus accomplishing everything on your goals list. You always hear about people breaching work and life balance. I’ve found this to be a myth. Trying to balance it all results in spreading yourself way too thin and diluting your results. You will have to make sacrifices to achieve great things. The key is to make sure you don’t go too long without addressing a focus area. I “tune” my sprints based around key events such as relocating, starting a new job or the holidays.

As an example, this is what my sprints look like:

January to March: Focus on physical health, spirituality and physical environment. [starting a new role at work]

April to June: Focus on physical health, fun & recreation and physical environment. [preparation for relocation]

July to September: Focus on significant other and family. [transition and stablization]

October to December: Focus on significant other and family (holiday celebrations). [stabilization and investing in relationships]

Regular planning retreats

If you’re not already doing regular planning retreats then I absolutely you recommend starting this habit in 2021. There is a reason that companies adopt this practice in their planning cycles. Having clear milestones and review periods throughout the year provide you with focus and mile-markers along the journey. Knowing you are going to meet and review on progress ensures you keep your eyes where they need to be. I would recommend at least one yearly planning retreat but if you could do quarterly that’s even better. This allows you to time your three-month sprints to these reviews.

Breaking it down into tasks and actions

None of this planning leads to actual results unless you can break it down into its component parts and distill it into the actions you are takin on weekly and daily basis. I incorporate this into my weekly planning sessions that usually occur on Sunday. I break down all my key focus areas and map out what activities and actions I will take during each day of the week. As an example, for Physical Health I’ll track my meals and my exercise regimen. This helps me in my weekly review to see if I accomplished what I needed to do or if I am falling short and need to make adjustments.

This is an overview of my planning process. In the next blog post, I’ll show you my specific journals and charts so you can see how I translate planning into action.

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Revision to Rule #1: DON’T DIE

Upon further thought – rule #1 is now DON’T DIE.

This foundational principal is loosely based on “if you want to help others, you have to help yourself first.”

Achieving an extraordinary life requires longevity. You have to stick around to support those that rely on you. And like me, if your mission is to help people, having a healthy body and mind are critical.

What I explain below is my current set of Life “Apps” curated throughout the last few years. I keep what works for me and discard the rest.

The first book that really set me on this path was Code of the Extraordinary Mind by Vishen Lakhiani. This helped me to understand the power of reprogramming my mind as well as downloading “Apps” to use for various purposes. It was in this book that I picked up the “6 Phase Guided Meditation” that I still use to this day. I also came to realize that if I wanted to change something about myself that the best thing I could do was to take action every single day.

Next came The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod. For those of you that have read the book, he talks about the “SAVERS” routine which is an acronym for:

Silence (meditation)

Affirmations

Visualization

Exercise

Reading

Scribing (Journaling)

This got me in the habit of a morning ritual. I still used Vishen’s 6 Phase Guided Meditation for the meditation portion, but I started adding the other elements including a morning run for my exercise portion which I actually did first thing in the morning. I also substituted listening to a podcast during my run instead of reading. It helped me to make the most out of my morning ritual. I adopted this routine and it became a part of my daily habit over the next 18 months. I didn’t always do every step in SAVERS. And there were days I didn’t do the routine at all, but it helped me in my journey of personal development.

In February 2020 my sister-in-law Wanda let me borrow a book she had just gotten called the 5am Club by Robin Sharma. I was leaving on a short business trip and she knew I would likely be done with the book by the time I returned.

Personally, I thought the book got off to a very slow start. Some might like it because it was written a story format. I just thought it took forever to get to the “meat” of it. The good stuff that I could apply to my own life.

When I finally did get there I picked up on the very simple 20/20/20 formula. When combined, I call this my “hour of power” that I execute every morning during the workweek. However, I must admit, didn’t adopt the “5am” part of it all. Yet since March, I have consistently been doing the routine at least five days a week and in many cases on Saturdays and Sundays as well. COVID-19 certainly helped me to cement the habit, but I found that even when I go into the office that it is easy to stick to.

In the remainder of this post, I’ll focus on what I do in the first 20-minute block which is exercise.

I haven’t been too good about my morning runs but I have found during this COVID-19 pandemic something that has worked well for me: YouTube videos. For me, this is a steady rotation of 20 to 30-minute Kettlebell, High-Intensity Interval Training (HIIT), yoga and a basic push-up/pull-up routine. I tend to look for routines I can do within the 15 to 25-minute window. On weekends or days, I work from home I will pick a longer or more intense workout.

I’ve included the links to the ones I use the most below:

Besides the YouTube videos I also do a simple push-up and pull-up routine. All that is needed is a mat for the push-ups and a pull-up bar that you can put over your door.

Here is the routine which is essentially four sets of each:

30 Push-Ups

10 to 12 Classic (Shoulder Width) Pull-Ups

30 Push-Ups

10 to 12 Chin-up Pull-Ups

30 Push-Ups

10 to 12 Classic (Shoulder Width) Pull-Ups

30 Push-Ups

10 to 12 Chin-up Pull-Ups

Besides the working out I’ve also adopted a 16 hour fast twice a week. Now that the weather is getting nicer where we live, I am trying to take a walk with my family two or three times a week.

As far as eating, I have found Paleo/Primal Diet to be the most effective but I haven’t quite found the consistency as yet. I’ve done one round of the Keto diet. While it helped to quickly burn off some fat and get me to my target weight range, I found it wasn’t something I could sustain.

That’s my DailyStack habit for health. In the next post, I’ll dive more into the second 20-minute section which is meditation and journal time.

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